Why is it that some ppl say that a black women needs a good black man?

i mean isnt that kinda a little stereotyping it? like saying that every black women likes or wants to date a black man?

im black %26amp; i dont, i have my reasons why, but im more attracted towrds whites and asian X) (especially sometimes with british accents) and with long hair.

and then sometimes if i say that i dont dont want a black guy,some say its because im too white or im a traitor?

in u guys opinion tell me wat u think plz?

Why is it that some ppl say that a black women needs a good black man?

I don't know, but I don't want a black man, good or gangsta and I'm a black woman. I want another man that is not of my race, simple. I don't know why it's said, but that stereotype needs to stop. Why can't we hear people say that a black woman or just a woman needs a good man period, with no race involved? I mean I never hear anyone say that a black man needs a good black woman! *u*

Why is it that some ppl say that a black women needs a good black man?

because they do. instead of thuggin gangstas

Why is it that some ppl say that a black women needs a good black man?

Ask the people who say that.

Why is it that some ppl say that a black women needs a good black man?

I think it is very sad that in the 21st century there are people out there who still see color and race rather then the person.

Why is it that some ppl say that a black women needs a good black man?

Some like chocolate, some like vanilla, and some like caramel. It depends on what your taste is. Yes, and even some like the taste of filthy carpet! Hahaha.

Why is it that some ppl say that a black women needs a good black man?

Asian eh? I have a chance then :-p.

Who cares, its not like they can do anything. We all like different things in life %26amp; we cant please everyone.

Why is it that some ppl say that a black women needs a good black man?

Love knows no boundaries. What you like and what you want is nobody else's business. If you wanna make it their business, fine. You are entitled to your pursuit of happiness, as is people are entitled to their opinion.

Nothing wrong with what you like.

Why is it that some ppl say that a black women needs a good black man?

Given my experience with men in general, I'd have to say that it's because they've got....ummm....bigger *howdies* and they think if you're gettin' a good romp in the sack that will take care of all your "problems".

It doesn't work like that however; just ignore those people and do what makes you happy...truly happy, not just content.

Why is it that some ppl say that a black women needs a good black man?

Yes it is racist and not true.

I've gone with some black women and I'm a skinny white nerd.

Why is it that some ppl say that a black women needs a good black man?

you need 2 talk 2 people who have had a bad relationship, with whatever colour and they will tell a different story.

my parents have never brought colour or creed into our house, it was never an issue but my friends were worried to bring a guy of a different colour into their house, I'm 27 now and instead of asking why their parents were so strange i asked my mom why she thought differently to them ( not that I'm complaining ) and had a very interesting reply.

she told me that she had been married b4 and had a child ( my brother ) with a man of the same colour and it had turned violent and she left him when my bro was two, she met another man (yes he was the same colour) and had me, when i got to an age to be dating she had already realized that as long as you are truly happy he could be purple 4 all she cared it wasn't colour she just didn't want me to date someone who was bad too me( whatever colour ) so colour was never an issue.

she already knew that bad people come in all shapes, sizes and colours.

she just wanted her kids to experience the Best.

hope this makes sense.

Why is it that some ppl say that a black women needs a good black man?

Love is blind sometimes,but you have to listen to your heart.Never mind what others say.Black or white is not the problem,but the question is: This person, is he/she the right one?

Why is it that some ppl say that a black women needs a good black man?

Love whoever you want to love. If you don't want to be with a black fine, no one can tell you who to love. Go do your thang

Why is it that some ppl say that a black women needs a good black man?

I think it's a silly thing to say.

I think some men assume that you would like or want them based on the fact that you're from the same racial background, but that's pretty arrogant.

On a similar note, I'm black and I've been told by a Hispanic guy that I needed a Latin man!

Some guys whatever their racial/ethnic background seem to display a bit of machismo especially when they "flirt" (or what they consider flirting).

Why is it that some ppl say that a black women needs a good black man?

You need to let go of this racial crap. I personally think you hold a grudge against black men for something they did or didn't do for you. I wouldn't call you a traitor but obviously something happened to you not to like black guys. I am a black guy and you seem to be as racist as a white person and you are black. I used to be like you toward black women but then I grew up and realized that the problems that I had with black women were just me. So you should do the same.