I was wondering about well sex.......?

well im a 16 year old girl..and i was just wondering about sex you know....me and my boyfriend of 17..are considering being sexually active with one another....i'm apsolutly positive of the choice i made..it's just that he's an expirence mixed(black and white) male and im a well a virgin and the community i live in is as you can say "GHETTO" and they'll probly tell me false things about sex so i was wondering if i can get some good ways to make sex a little bit comfortable...

THANKS TO ALL THE PEOPLE WHO ARE HELPING ME OUT..MAY GOD BLESS YOU

about me-im 16 light skined african american/puerto rican/indian/asian

i have light blue eyes and i have dark blong hair and brown colored skin and im intellectualy smarter then every one in my class and obviously much more prettyer( im just jking) so that my backgroung thanks

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I just don't understand what race has to do with you two having sex!

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are you sure about having that kind of relationship your not even perfectly developed yet your develped at age 21 and most girls have sex and then their boyfriends leave them right before you have the baby so i think you shouldnt do it and oh yeah its painful ive heard i am still a virgin

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wait till a time when YOU think that your ready

take a pill and a condom

and just go some where that you want to go

and when ever and make sure you feel safe about not being interupted

I was wondering about well sex.......?

This is something you have probably not heard yet.

Don't do it! You will regret it, maybe not now but 5 years from now you will! Your only 16, what if you become pregnant and then you have to drop out of school to take care of your kid?

Think about it real real hard before you decide to actually do it girl!

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Well that's too broad. You need to be more specific. What do you mainly want to know about?

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If you are smarter than everyone in your class you will know how to research this on the internet. There is too much to tell you on here. Contact me for information. Good Luck

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I have to be honest and say that if you do this, it would most likely be a huge mistake. Although, I know I cant change your mind for you, I will tell you, there is nothing you can do to make it more comfortable. The First time and even the second time, its going to be very painful, and well, theres nothing you can do to change that. You could use some kind of lubricant, like K-Y jelly, but its still going to be uncomfortable. but be honest with yourfelf, and take it from me, you do not want to loose it to someone, and regret it later, as most girls do. Be sure you use protection and make him get screened for STDs before you do anything. Dont be crazy, okay.

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there is way too much to write on here but hopefully you get what you are looing for.閳?br>I was wondering about well sex.......?

if your so darn smart. do the smart thing and don't have sex. if you have questions please wait. he may have experience, that doesn't make it right. if you do decide to have sex. use protection. the first time will always be painful. theirs no way around that

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Sex is a big step in your life. You don't think it is but it is. How long have you been in this relationship? Ummm and he is experienced. He is looking for one thing and once he gets it he will move on to the next one and you will feel nasty, dirty and used. and yes the first time hurts like hell. I was17 when i first had sex and i was pregnant at 18. I couldn't go any graduation parties or nothing. You loose all those years. Tell him to wait if he is not willing then he is not worth it.

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16 well first I'm going to tell about protection! Know It and apply It. Listening to your story I feel you know right from wrong. know one ever set me down to discuss sex and what's the right way. I'm going to share this with you in hopes of making a differences in your life. Sex is the start of something that can't be turn off once you start It It can't be pushed to the side. First make sure that this is what you really want and not just something everyone doing and you feel you have to do It to. Sex is a lot of work and It hurts when It's your first time. SCHOOL FIRST! Take your time and get to know yourself first ask yourself if the young man is worth It. I'm a mother and I'm scared of what's out here and my daughter is open for the same question I hope I'm making you think first and SEX later.

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your too young. wait til your at least 18